Consent
What is sexual consent?
Sexual consent means freely and enthusiastically agreeing to take part in sexual activity. This includes kissing, touching, oral sex and online behaviour such as sharing images or content containing nudity or sexual activity.
Consent must be informed, voluntary and ongoing – people need to understand what they’re agreeing to and feel safe doing so.
People cannot give consent if they are:
- Significantly affected by drugs or alcohol
- Manipulated, threatened, tricked or coerced
- Unconscious or asleep
Engaging in sexual activity with someone in any of these states is sexual assault. If you are unsure, that’s a ‘no’ to consent.
Consent must always be given every time, for each activity. It can never be assumed, and it can be withdrawn at any time – even in a long-term relationship or marriage.
Remember:
- Sexual consent is not a ‘maybe'. If someone isn’t clearly enthusiastic, you do not have consent - stop and check in.
- Pay attention to body language. If someone pulls away, covers up or looks unsure, stop and talk.
- A past sexual experience doesn’t equal future consent.
- If someone changes their mind, stop immediately and respect their choice.
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